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"What’s the difference between a toxic relationship and an abusive one?"
"Is it possible to trust again after experiencing gender-based violence?"
"What’s some questions I can ask before and during sex?"
At SEXtember 2024, students asked three expert speakers their burning questions on dating, consent, pleasure and gendered violence.
We invited experts Harrison James, Nadine Neukirch and Georgia Grace to deep dive a little further into these hot topics.
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Conversations about consent, relationships, sex and sexuality can sometimes be difficult. You can access support through the Gendered Violence Portal, and get support from the Gendered Violence Response Team.
Alternatively, you can talk to someone who is trained to help, through free and confidential support services and 1800RESPECT(1800 737 732).
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Nadine Neukirch
Nadineis a Clinical Psychologist and Dating Coach with a passion for helping individuals build healthy, fulfilling relationships. With experience in university clinics, non-profit organisations, NSW Health and private practice, Nadine specialises in addressing trauma, general mental health issues, and the challenges of dating and relationships. In individual and group sessions she blends psychological expertise and coaching techniques, offering guidance on areas such as online dating, clarifying dealbreakers, enhancing communication skills, and managing dating anxiety.
As the host of the Psychology of Dating podcast, Nadine shares actionable insights and strategies for applying psychological principles to dating and relationships. She is deeply committed to helping people feel confident, empowered, and equipped to create meaningful connections that enhance their overall well-being.
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5 top tips for dating
Top tips to deal with different conflict styles
Relationship conflict
The difference between a toxic and abusive relationship
Georgia Grace
Georgia is a certified sex & relationship practitioner and somatic therapist. She is particularly known for her work in the areas of inclusive, sex-positive and shame-free education and helps individuals, couples and groups overcome issues relating to sexual confidence, communication, consent and desire.
She is also a co-founder at Normal, a sexual wellness company, where she works with a team of experts to create educational courses and design modern sex toys.
Website:georgiagrace.co
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Questions to ask before and during sex
What to do when your desire levels are different
Brakes and accelerators with desire
Consent
Pleasure: How to know what feels good to you
The difference between desire and arousal
Harrison James
Harrisonis a survivor, award-winning activist, and Co-Founder of the acclaimed #YourReferenceAintRelevant campaign. After being sexually abused by his stepmother from the ages of 13 to 16, Harrison has become driven by his personal experiences and is dedicated to reforming Australia's legal system for survivors.
For years he carried the weight of this secret in silence but now, at 24 years old, his tireless activism fuels legislative reform and spotlights survivor-led initiatives, showcasing resilience and determination in pursuit of justice and healing. His extraordinary journey has been a beacon of hope for countless individuals and his unwavering commitment inspires a safer world for all.
Instagram:itsharrijames
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Justice and accountability
How to trust again
The role of men in ending gendered violence
You're not alone
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It’s everyone’s responsibility to be a part of the change to end gender-based violence. Learn more about what it is, how to spot it and support options if you’ve been affected.
This project is brought to you by the ݮƵ Gendered Violence Response Team and ݮƵ Accommodation.
This project was funded by a ݮƵ Gendered Violence Strategy Grant awarded to ݮƵ Psychology and Wellness and ݮƵ Accommodation in 2023.
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